What did I not do right?I mean,my advice fell on deaf ears whereas all I was trying to do was to prepare them for the many2 more years to come.I blatantly expressed my discomfort whey they went for a shopping spree.I agree its not my money but at the very least,use it sparingly coz God knows whats in it for them a few years down the road.Dont get me wrong.I hope and pray it will be a happy ending but I doubt so.At the end of the day,touchwood,if anything goes wrong,ill be the scapegoat.It happened before and at this rate,It will happen again.
For instance.........my brother...
I meant well when I told my mum getting him a bike was really a bad idea.....WHY?
For goodness sake..hes not working.And yes.they bought him a bike whereas I had to work my ass off to get 1 myself......Ill make this a brief 1...What got me really pissed off was the fact that they are going to repair his bike which cost about $1200 instead of letting him fend for himself,be independent,find as solution as to how they can meet in between.I mean they are spoonfeeding him and Im afraid he will get used to it.And eventually,ill be the the one to clean up the mess.Values are very important and that is what I want to inculcate in bro's head but bailing him out every single time he falls is not helping.....On top of repairing the bike,He will get a new spray paint job for his bike.Wow.It got me asking myself.....I guess he must be doing somthing right to be enjoying all the privileges......He is so different from me....different.Yes,....maybe my parents didnt have money then but that certainly does not give them the excuse/reason to start splurging on him just becoz or maybe they felt bad about not being fiancially able then.....That is obviously wrong............wrong.............
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