I'm 23,believe it

Reality check.Yes,I'm 23.And im still not sure as to what I really want to do.I mean,I do know what I want but getting there is just time consuming.Its not as if I'm not making an effort.
WDC stands for:

1. W-willingness to learn
2. D-desire to learn
3. C-commitment to action

I live by these principles and I do have all these attributes and I believe its a formula to success.I mean We(sweetie and me),we have established that I am a late bloomer and most importantly,I did realize the importance of education a bit too late but surely I deserve the thumbs up for the effort right?Lets see why a late bloomer?

I took 3.5 years in Poly instead of the norm 3 years.I took 1 year to be an officer in the army instead of the norm 9 mths(seriously,this ain't my fault).And so the assumptions are justifiable.

And sometimes I wonder whether signing on would be the easy way out(subjective to individuals) coz wherever I go I never fail to get comments like(kenape tak sign on,officer pe)But that is not what I want to.I mean I enjoyed what i did back then but its not something I want to do in the long run.And you need to have passion above ever thing else.hmm...What should I do?